FRIENDSHIP

Friendship is a beautiful relationship in your life where you are yourself and not worried about your image. When all other relationships are tensed friends bring solace in life and many times are above all relations. You can turn to your friends for help at any time and they are ready to help without grumble. Friends understand the truth hidden and the words of your silence. 

But there are people who do not know the definition of this beautiful word and misuse it. A bad friend is worse than an enemy, an enemy you can see and avoid, but to detect an insincere friend is hard. Bad friendships can only cause emotional, mental, physical or financial suffering. 

Friendship is based on trust. The secrets that you share with your friend are not meant for gossip. If you friend finds pleasure in gossiping about your secrets causing hurt and pain to you, then it is time to come out of it.

Misunderstanding are part of each relationship. Matured people sort them out the pleasant manner. But if your friend is talking negatively about you and spoiling your image in front of others with the intention of revenge or stealing your other friends, then its time to move out. 

Is your friend is too possessive about you? Is she/he feels hurt when you hangout with your other friends? Does she/he talk negative about them or try to create disturbance in your other friendships  then it is time to get out of it.  

Is the base of your friendship is selfishness? Does your friends contact you only when they need your help? If not, they are not concerned about anything else going in your life or your feelings then it is not worth it. It is better to say good bye. 

Whatever you are dealing with a negative or positive situation a friend always stands besides you without being judgemental. But in time of need if your friend does not stand up for you or help you and avoids staying in contact with you its time to break free. 

Does your friend feels ashamed of introducing you to her other friends if you are not dressed up well or if you turn up in a taxi when you have your own car? Then may be she/he is friends with your status and not you. If your status vanishes then she/he is going to vanish. So break it out. 

Respect is the most important part of any relationship. If your friend does not treat you respectfully, gives importance to others in your presence and neglect you, is jealous of your achievements, your sorrows does not touch them then it is done.

Are you finding it difficult to be yourself in your friend's company, or are you finding hard to adjust or is it their say and your liking are not given preference or you are finding it obligatory to hang out with her/him then its time to break up.  

It is better to have one good friend than many bad friends.